Saturday, 10 October 2015

Parenting - 2015 in the UK

There was very distressing news in the Independent newspaper. Despite initiatives by government to provide pre-school classes and social workers, it seems more than half of the nation's five year old children begin school lacking the most basic skills.

 For example being able to hold a pencil or communicate in comprehensible English.
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Poverty and cuts have been blamed, but how much does it cost to speak with your children? How expensive is plain paper and a pencil?

Somehow things have gone dreadfully wrong, and I suspect the polarised debate between 'left' and 'right' will be as fruitless as ever, and divert attention from the architects (the very rich who love a docile 'workforce' and pull the strings of governments and the media - all of whom are in debt to ... the very rich), and the resolutely witless who are given everything and spend all day moaning that someone has more than them.

From conception to school is about six years. That's over 2,000 days. Is it really normal to spend 2,000 days watching the drivel on TV and never thinking to get your child some paper and pencils?

 Is it normal to spend 2,000 days and never go to the FREE local library and borrow FREE books to read with your infant?

Apparently it is. So the solution is to become abnormal:

Doubt the value of the soap operas as a way of spending your time.
Doubt the value of the local load-mouth who insists 'School teachers don't know nothin'.
Doubt the value of multinational corporations who insist you need every new gimmick in your home.

And above all - doubt the peculiar notion that things can't change for the better. They can, and sometimes do.

I know some poor souls who lack the confidence to use the library, which is very sad. They have peers who support their belief that libraries have nothing to offer, but fail to realise that this is a defence mechanism - the realisation that they have been missing out being too scary to contemplate.

Please use the library, the internet, every thing you can to enhance your life. Many things are difficult, even scary the first time. And every single one is a bit easier the second time, and the third, ...

The most damaging poverty is poverty of ideas, and poverty of role models.


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Parenting is the answer, not nannying - adults should be parents, not idiots and adolescents.

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3 comments :

  1. #Poverty Support for bereaved on low incomes Poverty news

    Funeral poverty exists when the cost of a funeral is beyond a person's ability to pay. One-in-seven people are now said to experience serious financial ...

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  2. Continuing arms expenditure hampering poverty alleviation Poverty news in India and Pakistan.


    Indian delegates, headed by Kirti Azad, member of Lok Sabha, highlighted a number of social safety net programmes that have helped alleviate poverty in India adding that success also needs to be based on equitable and sustained growth and the inclusion of stakeholders other than government.

    Pakistani participants, headed by Syed Naveed Qamar, member of National Assembly, showcased economic growth and role of remittances.

    They said that in order to gain greater benefits of remittances, focus must also be placed on improvement in education and vocational training.

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  3. single parents with infant #children in #poverty in Netherlands

    More Dutch in long-term poverty despite shrinking wealth gap


    Despite a decrease in the wealth gap in the Netherlands, the number of households living in long-term poverty increased to 3.3 percent of households in 2015, Statistics Netherlands announced on Wednesday.

    In 2015 a total of 221 thousand households lived below the minimum income threshold for more than four years, 27 thousand more than in 2015.

    The low income threshold is the minimum amount of income needed to achieve a level of consumption considered necessary in the Netherlands, according to Statistics Netherlands.

    In 2015 that was 1,030 euros for single people and 1,930 euros for couples with two children. Of the more than seven million Dutch households, 626 thousand live on an income below that limit. That is 8.8 percent of Dutch households.

    Single parents with minor children are especially at risk of poverty. They make up more than a quarter of the group living below the minimum income threshold.

    In 2015 a total of 320 thousand children lived in poverty - 125 thousand had been doing so for more than 4 years.

    The rise of house prices also caused a decrease in the wealth gap in the Netherlands. Low house prices relatively affect low-income households more than high income households, as wealthier households usually have more savings and securities and therefore more reserves.

    Nearly three in five households owned their homes in 2015. And homes accounted for 56 percent of the value of households' assets.

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